Why today I am talking about love? Very Simple it doesn't mean that I am in love. But ya I now started realizing about it. What love is and what it is not. One day one of my friend asked me this question in the class during interview session "What do you mean by love". At that time I'd no answer. Why everyone talks about love and they don't know what is it. If my 'someone' asked me do you love me. I used to say after giving pause " I'm confused, I don't know." Now I am going to write all that I think. It is not written in any book and not said by someone else. I am going to elucidate what I think.
Love is everywhere. It surrounds in every part of your demeanor. If you are scavenging for your love. Then please don't search it. Because It is inside you. Realize it. This is the mistake which I was doing earlier. The tragedy of last week told me that the love I was searching in others eyes was in my family and friends. and it doesn't mean that I am watching in wrong eyes. It means that I want to feel the wrong love in wrong eyes. Well the definition of love is never ending. It was just a feature of love.
Another thing what I realize LOVE is sacrifice...... A mother is a great example of love because in her whole life she sacrificed her life not only for his son but also for his husband, parents. Love is not a human activity. South Pole always wants to be with north and they are sacrifcing each other to be on different sides. this is what known as great love. The relation of love and sacrifice is very strong. Now a magical formula for couples. If you want to show love don't waste your time and money in sitting with them or giving expensive gifts. Sacrificing is the biggest way to impress. this will show your true love. However This formula is applicable only for true lovers.
I don't know may be people think that I am a person of old thougts. but really I believe in Old Maxims. The old film stories were based on true love and that is what I believe. New generation is unaware about this thing. they are loving what their mind needs and this is not love. Current era don't allow people to work with their heart. In my city I have found many of my friends having their girlfriends just for showing others that how beautiful my lover is. Its very beautiful to be with opposite sex and people watch with first priority to the couples. that's a true fact. But their future is not very good. because they were in need for each other only for satisfying their needs. He wants to show others and she wants to have fun. What our mind needs is very temporary and what love needs is permanent in nature. That is why the pure love example of your life is your parents because your heart needs them. Sometimes it becomes worst when mind started needing them (money and property matter). Try to love those things which is not for selfish purpose. your love should be without reason. and for which you can sacrifce everything.
Human being, Nowadays started finding hate in every corner of their surrounding (mostly). Here I'm not exceptional. whereever we go we started finding how to hate. and this hate leads to sadness. I started realizing now how to see LOVE in every corner. And the initial step I took is to see the love in family, friends and relatives. and most aberrant thing is to find it in the enemy's eyes. here you will excel in love. That is why my grandfather use to say me (at the time of my childhood) "first love your enemy". LOVE IS GOD. If you find love you can see your god.
And what LOVE is not........? "How much he\she loves me" this is truly not love. People says this person don't love me, so why should i love him\her. here you can see the selfish desire that if others love you then only you will be in love. if they started hating you then.???? LOVE has amrit in it. you will become immortal after drinking it.
Well its very true that Love listens only to heart. I'd never seen love in the eyes of my Sister untill she left me. because earlier I had no eyes now I can see immense love even when I am talking to her via phone. My brother never talks to me when he is at home but when he was going for the job. I saw his true love towards his younger brother. My parents never show love while I am happy and enjoying till I failed and sad. May be god wants me to see love at the time of pain. Thank you God for giving me these two phases ........... Happy times and Sad Times.
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