Today I attended the lecture about stress management given by a psychologists from our college. We have not studied with him as the subject streams are totally different. You may be thinking I am a very serious kind of sincere student. but the answer is not exactly right. Actually attending the seminar on the topic Stress management was amended compulsory for us by our principle. But believe me after attending that seminar I was thinking I may have missed something very important if bunked that lecture. The lecture totally highlights the importance of stress management.
We should keep our stress up to that much level so that we can overcome it. but not up to more that that. I am saying this because any person performing his work has to take his work serious even if his the a best player of lawn tennis Roger federer, he feels nervous in each match, so that he can make the history. this principle can be applied to every one, whether his conscious about it or not.
Being in stress and working continuously like a warrior ultimately result to success. The person should keep his stress up to some limit. Don't let it to overcome on you, That is what the fun of life. What is life without no problem. Very boring. That is why every human has some kind of emotions. They have some attachement. They want soething and need them anyhow and acquiring is a fun and great sense of satisfaction. I ask a question if you got a thing which you were dreamt of or which you were thinking is incredible to get what will be your response when you achieved it. You will filled with joy and happiness.But the human nature says what you achieved in life is no more your target. you want something more to gain.
ok that is all about achieving now think about if you got failed. The human nature diverts here according to their capability of managing the stress. A rubberband how much can it be streched. It is depend on the quality, High quality streched a lot and low quality have less tensile strength. The human mind is also just like it. You can rarely find peoples who are like good quality rubber band. They cna remain in high density of tension, because these people are not very popular. but there are some exceptionals like Napoleon Who was defeated continuously 18 times and in the 19th time he finally got the success. There is a very famous hindi quote "man ke aage haar hai, aur man ke jeete jeet" . Means you lost if your heart last and you won if your heart won. In short failure or success is just dependent on your thinking.
Well I am very lucky that my father is just like the above ease. I want to share this because this is my own experience and i have seen, observed it and feel it closely. My father is the biggest failure in business. From my childhood I have never came to know that he got some profit by this tender and this is happening from 20 years.
He lost his own property which were enormous in variety. However I am happy to tell that despite of having debts of more than 10 lakhs rupees. He got success by making there children independent. Both the two sibblings of mine are now engineers and me the youngest one with you is undergraduate but will complete my MBA after 3 years. so that is what he got success.
Where is fun in life? In struggling and after that getting success. Overcoming from your tension and continuously working for particular thing is ultimately bring us to the success.
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